LawTalkers - New Fashion Board 10-3-2003

Originally posted by barely_legal
This just reminded me that the boy who won't go to the movie theater with me wore black jeans on our last date. I gently mocked him (ok, not so gently) and he had no idea why I was making fun of his "good" (yeah, that's a quote) black jeans.

Now that's a dealbreaker. At least they weren't Calvin Klein, but still.

So have you dated more gay guys or guys who own black jeans? Not that they are necessarily mutually exclusive.

sebastian_dangerfield

10-16-2003 02:48 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by paigowprincess
Would it be wrong to dealkill a guy for having a southern accent and referring to me as a Yankee? While using words like peripatetic and being prone to renaming every re line even after I passive aggressively implied that it is really not an endearing habit, if he is a really sweet and cutish guy? Why do people have to rewrite re lines on every email anyway? Is it a control thing? Is he anal? Does he have to try that hard to be funny? is it all a bad [JOKE]? Is this just the beginning of a lifetime of stting at the proverbial coffee table reading the NYT while he cracks his knuckles and chews gum? Am I just too shallow here?

1. No. "Yankee" is annoying.

2. Who cares about email. I don't even read re lines. I just hit reply.

3. Yes, he is anal. Sounds like a closeted gay civil war buff. I date one of those once. Run.

4. I fucking hate gum chewers. If you must look like bovine, go buy some Skoal and at least get a little nicotine hit for your work.

4.

paigowprincess

10-16-2003 02:49 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by bold_n_brazen
I dated a boy from South Carolina once whose mother liked me so much she referred to me as the "YANKEE JEW WHORE". To my face. Seriously.

That, my friends, was a deal breaker.

New Board Motto- where the yankee jew whores are./

sebastian_dangerfield

10-16-2003 02:50 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by barely_legal
edited to add: I forgot the best part --- he told me that the place we were going was kind of nice so I couldn't wear normal jeans. Then he showed up in black jeans.

edited to add -- fuck, so I don't know the difference between "edit" and "quote". At least I don't wear black jeans.

Bullshit. That's like wearing jorts. Nobody does that.

Penske_Account

10-16-2003 02:50 PM

Wisdom From Coltrane

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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
True as the day is long. The trick is to be a slacker and succeed. And it can be done. You'll never be Rupert Murdoch, but you'll do allright if you know how to work it. The older I get, the more I realize perception and image are more important than reality. Present yourself as a driven Dale Carnegie go-getter and ye shall be one... I find the whole phenomenon of succeeding in this and other similar professions so utterly arbitrary its laughable, and a bit pathetic. I learned a while ago that people mistake my loathing for intensity and think its a sign that I'm dedicated. The more tantrums I throw, the more they seem to think I'm working my ass off, while the quiet guy who's really into this shit is getting yelled at for being apathetic. Law's a great field for manipulators... 99% of lawyers can't read other people for shit.

S(Your devoted company man)D

Ding ding ding, we have a winner!

Welcome to the club SD!

notcasesensitive

10-16-2003 02:50 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by paigowprincess
So have you dated more gay guys or guys who own black jeans? Not that they are necessarily mutually exclusive.

None of my gay friends would be caught dead in black jeans. Not even the lesbians.

paigowprincess

10-16-2003 02:52 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by Replaced_Texan
I'm confused. You seem to know where the Mason Dixon line is, but yet you don't know where Yankees come from?

Youre not confused, you are mistaken.

paigowprincess

10-16-2003 02:54 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
1. No. "Yankee" is annoying.

2. Who cares about email. I don't even read re lines. I just hit reply.

3. Yes, he is anal. Sounds like a closeted gay civil war buff. I date one of those once. Run.

4. I fucking hate gum chewers. If you must look like bovine, go buy some Skoal and at least get a little nicotine hit for your work.

4.

Let me amend the new board motto. Where the Yankee Jew Whores and Closted Gay Civil War Buffs with Black Jeans hang.

sebastian_dangerfield

10-16-2003 02:57 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by notcasesensitive
None of my gay friends would be caught dead in black jeans. Not even the lesbians.

I can think of no gay male alive on this planet who'd be caught dead in anything that is a required part of a TGIFriday's uniform.

S("flair" is to gay men as holy water is to vampires)D

dtb	10-16-2003 02:57 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by paigowprincess
I dont think Dr. Peripatetic ...

He also ccalls himself a cognitive minority.

As to the first, just what did he say exactly? What was he trying to say?

As to the second (and this may obviate any need to answer the above questions), if he's saying what you seem to imply he's saying (viz. I'm smarter than most everyone ...), what a freakin' tool. It's one thing to think it (unbecoming as it may be to have such thoughts...), it's completely another to announce it. It doesn't work on so many levels (very much unlike "Man Getting Hit in Crotch with Football").

barely_legal

10-16-2003 02:57 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
Bullshit. That's like wearing jorts. Nobody does that.

I couldn't make this shit up. He actually called me to tell me when he would pick me up (we were going to a comedy club for gods sake, not anywhere fancy) and I said "can I wear my jeans?" and he acted offended. He was like "well, I'm dressing nice-casual."

To me, "nice casual" means slacks and a shirt (no jeans or t-shirts). If he said "I'm dressing redneck mullet-sporting Nascar-watching nice-casual" then maybe I would have expected the black jeans he showed up in (yeah, I ended the sentence in two prepositions, kill me).

What are "jorts"?

robustpuppy

10-16-2003 02:59 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by barely_legal
He was like "well, I'm dressing nice-casual."

Please describe the rest of the outfit. And what brand were they? Did they have a tapered leg? Did he wear his good white sneakers? A comb in the back pocket?

paigowprincess

10-16-2003 02:59 PM

Dealkillers again

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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
I can think of no gay male alive on this planet who'd be caught dead in anything that is a required part of a TGIFriday's uniform.

S("flair" is to gay men as holy water is to vampires)D

I can think of one. But he is in the closet.

Penske_Account

10-16-2003 03:02 PM

Dealkillers again

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Given that black is the new black, again (or has it changed again, DS?), what if someone wanted to wear all black all the time.....are they then barred from wearing jeans..black jeans? Or in that case is it okay to wear black jeans?