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ThurgreedMarshall 04-20-2009 11:38 AM

Re: Okay, I need an explanation.
 
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Originally Posted by Jack Manfred (Post 387496)
Not as stupid as being the high-wage earner, knowing that half of marriages end on divorce, knowing that you would get fucked if you ever got a divorce, knowing that there was a document that could protect you from that fucking, and choosing not to have such a document drafted and signed.

If you have assets or are a high-wage earner and especially if you are a man, and you don't get a prenup, you shouldn't be surprised when courts follow the presumptions in the law that are not in your favor and act on the biases that are not to your benefit.

Maybe I'm just not understanding the conversation we're having. But I'm saying that the presumption is flawed and there shouldn't be one since family dynamics have changed somewhat significantly. You're saying people shouldn't be surprised that the law carries the presumption and should protect themselves by having their SO sign a pre-nup. What?

Besides, how many people actually want to present their spouse with a fucking pre-nup. They are commonly viewed as insulting.

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Originally Posted by Jack Manfred (Post 387496)
You want the judge to do "what makes sense." It's like you're not even a lawyer when you write things like that. People in Hell want ice water. Everyone wants the judge deciding their case to do "what makes sense." The problem is that both sides coming before a judge often have diametrically-opposed views about "what makes sense."

Yes. And right now, the law adopts a presumption that made sense years ago. I'm not saying it should go the opposite direction and I'm not saying the judge should have complete discretion on what to do. But I don't think the law works fairly as it is applied now and I don't exactly have the time to sit down and hammer out a new one.

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Originally Posted by Jack Manfred (Post 387496)
I want the judge to send the defendant to prison. That makes sense to me. The defense attorney wants the judge to grant probation, or to give a misdemeanor, or to grant a dismissal. Em thinks that makes sense. If only there was some way I could protect myself from a judge who doesn't make sensible rulings. If only I could make an agreement before going to court where I could set forth what I wanted, what I needed on a particular case.

See above, smart ass.

TM

Mmmm, Burger (C.J.) 04-20-2009 11:41 AM

Re: A fashion board in which sometimes we'll remember to post spoiler warnings
 
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Originally Posted by Did you just call me Coltrane? (Post 387539)
2.

Also a question of whether you need a bunch of suits or not. If you need some for less money to fill out your wardrobe, you could do worse. If you're looking to add one or two suits a year, wait for the nordstrom sale in June and/or July (at least that's the timing in DC area).

Did you just call me Coltrane? 04-20-2009 11:48 AM

Re: A fashion board in which sometimes we'll remember to post spoiler warnings
 
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Originally Posted by Mmmm, Burger (C.J.) (Post 387542)
Also a question of whether you need a bunch of suits or not. If you need some for less money to fill out your wardrobe, you could do worse. If you're looking to add one or two suits a year, wait for the nordstrom sale in June and/or July (at least that's the timing in DC area).

I have a TM Lewin suit on its way from the UK. Lewin has a great return policy, so there's really no risk. I bought it when all suits were on sale for £195 (a sale which happens about 4x/year), and when the exchange rate was 1 GBP to $1.40 (approx). The GBP prices quoted by UK sites include VAT (17.5%) which is eliminated when they ship product outside of the EU/UK. I found a 10% coupon code and used it. I paid a total of $190 with shipping (£8). I will report on quality/fit.

http://www.tmlewin.co.uk/content/products/20179_n.jpg

1436 04-20-2009 11:54 AM

Re: A fashion board in which sometimes we'll remember to post spoiler warnings
 
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Originally Posted by Mmmm, Burger (C.J.) (Post 387542)
Also a question of whether you need a bunch of suits or not. If you need some for less money to fill out your wardrobe, you could do worse. If you're looking to add one or two suits a year, wait for the nordstrom sale in June and/or July (at least that's the timing in DC area).

2.

In my pre-law career I went from a "dockers and polos" office to a "suits always" office.* Banks was my daily suit. I wore the coats for about 15 minutes a day, so the real issue was making sure the pants fit well and the jacket hung well from a hook on the back of my door.

Mysteriously they all shrunk a bit after going to law school and getting married. If I needed to wear a suit more than once a month I would go back to them to fill out my wardrobe. Their casual clothes are just overpriced crap, though.

*I actually thought this was a joke during the interview because the guys interviewing me were wearing what appeared to be industry standard cheap slacks and dress shirts. Little did I know they had cheap matching jackets back in their office.

Pretty Little Flower 04-20-2009 11:56 AM

Re: Okay, I need an explanation.
 
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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall (Post 387541)
See above, smart ass.

TM

There we go! Now you sound like a lawyer again!

Pretty Little Flower 04-20-2009 11:57 AM

Re: A fashion board in which sometimes we'll remember to post spoiler warnings
 
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Originally Posted by 1436 (Post 387544)
a "dockers and polos" office

Good lord. How dreadful.

Fugee 04-20-2009 12:06 PM

Britain's Got Talent
 
And Susan Boyle's got competition:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVU4IkzMNIo

1436 04-20-2009 12:09 PM

Re: A fashion board in which sometimes we'll remember to post spoiler warnings
 
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Originally Posted by Pretty Little Flower (Post 387546)
Good lord. How dreadful.

Best place I ever worked.

The carpet was indoor/outdoor, which matched the rest of the decor very well. It had a "we converted the warehouse into office space that matches my mobile home" feel to it. Your first day you were fitted for waders, rubber boots, hard hat, and work gloves. All free!

Both the receptionist and the coffee were hot and the beer started flowing around 6 most days, 3-4 on Fridays.

The warehouse guys always flaunted the fact that they could wear overalls or coveralls while the office folks had to wear khakis and collared shirts. I actually started to envy the freedom of their overalls. And sometimes their coveralls.

That's when I thought it best to interview for the fancy new job before my awkward longing for comfortably casual pants ruined my career.

ThurgreedMarshall 04-20-2009 12:22 PM

Re: Britain's Got Talent
 
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Originally Posted by Fugee (Post 387547)
And Susan Boyle's got competition:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVU4IkzMNIo

That was awesome. And not just because I like Simon Cowell and love Michael Jackson's older stuff. Very cool.

TM

Tyrone Slothrop 04-20-2009 12:43 PM

Re: A fashion board in which sometimes we'll remember to post spoiler warnings
 
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Originally Posted by Shape Shifter (Post 387497)
Stop making sense.

Big, boxy suits?

http://www.howardism.org/thoughts/TalkingHeadsClip7.jpg

Not sure that's the look for me.

greatwhitenorthchick 04-20-2009 12:44 PM

I don't trust the choices you're making
 
This weekend on the subway, there was this kid running wild, jumping on the seats, kicking the doors, yelling and screaming etc. The kid looked about 3 years old. The mother kept saying to her "I don't trust the choices you're making". Shockingly, this had no effect on the child. The mother then stepped it up with "you're not making very safe choices." The father just stood there like a large lump of dough. They got off at Park Slope.

Is this a particular school of parenting? "I don't trust the choices you're making?" WTF is that? I'm no parent, and don't like to judge those who are because I don't know what it's like, but that kind of thing just seems so ridiculous that it makes my brain hurt.

ThurgreedMarshall 04-20-2009 12:56 PM

Re: I don't trust the choices you're making
 
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Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick (Post 387557)
This weekend on the subway, there was this kid running wild, jumping on the seats, kicking the doors, yelling and screaming etc. The kid looked about 3 years old. The mother kept saying to her "I don't trust the choices you're making". Shockingly, this had no effect on the child. The mother then stepped it up with "you're not making very safe choices." The father just stood there like a large lump of dough. They got off at Park Slope.

Is this a particular school of parenting? "I don't trust the choices you're making?" WTF is that? I'm no parent, and don't like to judge those who are because I don't know what it's like, but that kind of thing just seems so ridiculous that it makes my brain hurt.

I have seen this. These are the same parents who run after their children on the playground, that is already covered in rubber, to make sure they don't fall or try anything that might lead to a fall. I'm fairly certain there is a first year here at the firm who was raised under this parenting method.

TM

ThurgreedMarshall 04-20-2009 01:00 PM

Barkley
 
These guys look like they have fun. Here's Charles trying to eat one piece of white bread in 25 seconds.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O210v...layer_embedded

TM

Secret_Agent_Man 04-20-2009 01:04 PM

Re: I don't trust the choices you're making
 
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Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick (Post 387557)
Is this a particular school of parenting? "I don't trust the choices you're making?" WTF is that? I'm no parent, and don't like to judge those who are because I don't know what it's like, but that kind of thing just seems so ridiculous that it makes my brain hurt.

Sounds like it. Not one I've heard of before -- a particuarly stupid school of parenting.

S_A_M

Cletus Miller 04-20-2009 01:05 PM

Re: I don't trust the choices you're making
 
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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall (Post 387562)
I have seen this. These are the same parents who run after their children on the playground, that is already covered in rubber, to make sure they don't fall or try anything that might lead to a fall. I'm fairly certain there is a first year here at the firm who was raised under this parenting method.

TM

They let them run wild on the subway, but run after them on the playground to keep them from falling?

NYC is a weird place.


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