| greatwhitenorthchick |
06-01-2005 07:06 PM |
Tact (or lack thereof)
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Originally posted by Tyrone Slothrop
I used to work some with a more senior associate who would make such jokes. After the third or fourth time, starting to feel complicit, I told her that I thought the joke was tasteless and offensive. She stammered a little bit, told me that she was from New York City, where people have lower standards I guess, and from then on avoided me as much as possible. Which was pretty much an excellent outcome.
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huh. I used to be around someone who would say racist shit. When I pointed out that it was offensive, he asked "why, you're not black" I should have just said that it doesn't matter what I am, but instead I pointed out that members of my family are black. I guess I just felt that would personalize the point for him, but I felt like a pussy for doing it. Like if members of my family weren't black, I wouldn't care. Anyhoo, it shut him up, so I suppose that is good.
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