LessinSF |
09-18-2006 07:38 AM |
A Little Help?
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Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
I am going to try to be helpful. Unless you are absolutely sure that she is not going to confuse love/children blah blah blah with sex in your circumstances, you should book separate rooms. Twin beds does not get you there. You just can't have sex with her unless you want to deal with all the accompanying crap. If that's the way she thinks, that is the way she thinks. I don't think she'll change. You know this already.
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Yes, I do know the the obvious, and that was subsumed/implicated in my post. Some people got subtext, some missed.
Regardless, I do appreciate the serious advice. And, I agree that, come 3-4 months from now, we will know whether we are travel-buddies, or travel-buddies-who-sometimes-manipulate-the-other's-exra-special-sensory-inputs.
But, but, but, but it is a fucking bitch being the adult. How fucking wrong is it that I, me, this fucker, has become so fucking uber-rational that I analyze every opportunity to the point that I talk myself out of any action . For example, I went to a big Octoberfest event tonight, and I met a chick who was so incomprehensibile and incoherent that I felt like a skeezy older-dude talking to her, like I was setting up trying to fuck her when she was passed out. As opposed to just going "dude, passed out chick, can I go first?"
And it was me - loser - that was the hesitant party the other night. It was me who recognized that- if my friend was throwing herself at me, it had nothing to do with me - but it was about her relationship with her ex-something. And I was the loser who - when she threw herself at me - stopped it short to discuss her reasons for her behavior. How lame am I that I arrested a fuck-me juggernaut because I wanted to make sure that our friendship would survive whatever happened?
I do have an inarguable truth:
Every week trolling
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