Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski (Post 368102)

we're doing a newlywed game and i need question help.

1- suggest questions.

2- help with this one:

Ladies, the last time your husband drove you two to whoppieland, would you say; he got on the expressway and sped too fast, got lost and wouldn't ask for directions or ?

I'm thinking "took the safe way home."

Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 368106)

Whoppieland?

Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 368107)

I've just been told this is next to Wallyworld.

Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 368106)

Whoppieland?

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski (Post 368110)

if you do a Newlywed game, then you need to do it, with the whole 60s feel.

please don't fight the hypo, and help me develop the questions.

Originally Posted by notcasesensitive (Post 368083)

From the sound of it, she isn't that into him (I have never told someone that I'd like to be single for a while unless I have written off any sort of serious connection). Adder, don't keep yourself up at night. You seem not to be a person who is capable of FWB. Cut the cord. If you want to, remind her of that period when she wanted to be single. Heck, if you are not a breaker-upper, just annoy her in the ways that you must have when she made the single comment and maybe she'll initiate the break-up again.

Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield (Post 368097)

I'd normally never say this, but in your situation, think with your dick.

Originally Posted by Mmmm, Burger (C.J.) (Post 368067)

Of course it will--the description has friend with benefits written all over it, with the added downside of its being a coworker. Adder needs to find himself a new love interest at least for the short term to extract himself from the situation.

Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield (Post 368092)

Do that thing that turns her off in bed. You know... talking.

Originally Posted by ltl/fb (Post 368111)

Whoopieland. I think you were thinking floppy/woppy.

Maybe you can work in floppy? Your subconscious was going there . . .

Originally Posted by Adder (Post 368073)

Thus far, I am trying the fizzle approach. Although as I may attempt to pursue something with someone else, it may have to become more affirmative just out of general decency to both.

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski (Post 368085)

so. They wouldn't have noticed early enough to make up 10 minutes. how many marathons all you guys with opinions have under your belts?

Originally Posted by Adder (Post 368093)

Underlying all of this, allegedly, is her difficultly getting over a serious relationship with her ex. The "needing to be single" thing was actually several months ago, and was followed by all of a few days of not seeing her before she reached out to me again. My main reaction to it was surprise that I wasn't really upset and it has been awhile since I initiated anything.

But you guys are probably right, and my anxiety is probably misplaced. I just worry that she is taking things more seriously when the conversation turns more emotional/intimate, but that is probably just because those topics make me uncomfortable in general so if I was her I wouldn't bring them up casually. That probably isn't true of her.

To some degree this is also driven by some interest in a friend who recently moved back into town. Oddly enough, she actually asked me why I never dated this friend (which is a long story of its own).

I have really only done FWB once in that past, which didn't end all that well after she started to take it more seriously, which probably colors my reactions here.

Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 368107)

I've just been told this is next to Wallyworld.