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Originally posted by Diane_Keaton
And you certainly DO have a good answer and you said it yourself: you are past romantic feelings for her.
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Yeah, ya know, I kinda thought that was an adequate reason, but that didn't seem to satisfy her. Probably a result of trying to have this conversation with someone who is less than sober. But it is especially hard to tell someone you aren't into them when the conversation begins with her asking, "What is it about me that makes no one want me?"
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Some people assume they can simply go back to people they dumped by "un-dumping" them and assume the only obstacle (to be overcome) is that the dumpee may be harboring resentment. Tell her that's not the case.
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I think you are right. I think that is exactly what she thinks is going on, but really, there is no resentment at all. It was a very long time ago, and I am very much over it. But even so, I'm not so sure once you are over it that you can really go back, resentment or not.
