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Originally posted by ABBAKiss
It would be hurtful, yes, but arguably it is hurtful to not care enough about your spouse to remain attractive for them. I'm not saying it is okay that he intentionally phrased his sentiment in a hurtful way. I thought people were saying that he was somehow out of bounds for being tired of having a fat wife. I think that is only natural.
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Oh come on -- I doubt anyone gains weight to spite his/her spouse and
in order to make him/herself unattractive. If he really did say "I'm tired of having a fat wife" she likely (and not inappropriately) understood him to be saying "I don't want to be married to you if you are fat," which is not only hurtful but shows that he cares more about her looks than he does about her feelings -- which is uncool at best.
