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Originally posted by purse junkie
I fucking wish even Thurgreed happiness with jailbait or a sugar mommy with total sincerity, despite the obvious truth that the vast majority of old guys who date only younger women are insecure youth-desperate sadsacks unable to handle actual interactions with grown-ups who can stand up to them, and you call me pissy? That, I thought, was Mother Theresa nice of me.
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PJ,
I haven't dated too many younger women. That said, I have always, like all men, sought and found women my own age who looked younger. The reason I did so was exactly the same reason Hugh Hefner dates 24 year olds - we all look a lot more attractive when we're young. When I see a 20 year old college student with a perfect ass pass by, my minds plays certain scenes that would never come to mind when I see a 40 year old in a loose fitting conservative dress which hides a bad case case of secretarial spread. We're to be attracted to youth and health, which are evidenced by good looks. Beatrice the Spinster may be fascinating, but we can't change the fact that she can scare a dog off a meat wagon. Meredith the cute little blonde graduate may not be worldly yet, but she'll get there with time, and look damn fine in the process.
Men by nature are visually aroused. Young women trip a primordial switch deep in the recesses of our minds that I could no more explain to you than you could explain menstrual cramps to me. Being a rational thinking creature, I am constatntly amazed at just how hard it is for me to keep my eyes from wandering to the cleavage of the smiling 20 year old girl who sits behind the desk at the front door of my gym. I wouldn't trade my wife for a million bucks, but I'd pay that little girl everything in my wallet at the moment if she offered to show me what she was hiding behind that low cut top...
PJ, you sound to me like someone who is deeply offended by the fact that men are more interested in the package than the substance, so I'll offer you this caveat to ease your blood pressure - no matter how hot the cute little girls may be, if they've nothing between the ears, most good men won't marry them. As much as I'd drool at the beach and privately damn monoghamy to myself when a fantastic hottie passed me in a bar, I was not going to get involved with any chick who couldn't interest me.
Its hard to find a bright hottie and make it work. You've a better chance of hitting back to back holes in one. Hence, most guys will accept hot and dumb or hot and much younger. This does not make such men insecure - if anything, it just makes them unlucky.
S(In sum, exceptional looks are the hardest thing to find, so they'll always be most valued)D
