A word of advice from the experienced...if the person you are dating NEVER has any money, is waiting for next payday, invites you to a really nice restaurant and has NO SHAME in telling you he doesn't have enough money - dump him like a load of bricks. Why do people think you're made of money just because you drive a nice car? I guess it's the same reason I thought one of these guys was a total loser for driving a beat-up 60's vintage bug. Turns out - 2 separate guys thought I was "money" because I had a nice car. So expected the gigolo treatment. They were sad to learn that I wasn't and that all the money was tied up in the car/insurance/maintenance. Just a hint for you potential gigolos out there.