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Originally posted by Bad_Rich_Chic
My impression is that the issue is less about the courts interpreting what her comments meant and what circumstances she thought they applied to, and more about who appropriately should make that interpretation if there is a difference of opinion.
Having a neurotic, meddling mother myself, I agree whole-heartedly with the common law position that, unless there is specific direction otherwise, that person is one's spouse (whom one chose, after all, unlike one's parents). Incidentally, while I have made that abundantly clear to all and sundry (including my T&E lawyer), I haven't signed the form yet, either. However, I'm less worried about my mother trying to keep me around for years so she can read me self-help books and style my hair badly while I turn into liquified goo than I am about an ugly confrontation over who is in charge. Which is, really, worse, since that hurts the conscious.
You are all on notice - unless I can by some means communicate "don't pull that plug muthafucker," I want you to pull the plug.
BR(after the organ harvesting, of course)C
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Duly noted. Nobody so fashion conscious should have to endure bad hair. And I would request that if I marry, and then plan to divorce my hubby, who then takes up with another woman soon after I drop into a veggie state, that hubby not make the decision on what I would have wanted. We'll leave that to mummy who, if she desires to, can coo at me and baby me and wipe my butt for all eternity. With the LTL/FB clause of course: as long as there is no pain.