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Originally posted by Replaced_Texan
Questions:
1.) Should Guy B have made a move on Guy A's ex? Should he have waited longer?
2.) Should Guy B have told Guy A about the move on his ex earlier? (Note: Guy A was in Mexico the first week that they were dating.)
3.) Should Guy B expect to be cut out of Guy A's life (and possibly social circle) because of moving in on Guy A's ex?
4.) Should Guy B have apologized to Guy A about his actions?
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1.) Yes. No. This answer assumes the moves were made and welcomed because of genuine attraction and not any desire to get back at Guy A in some way. People don't own their exes after a breakup and neither ex should be restricted as to whom they can date, with an exception for anyone in the ex's immediate family.
2.) Earlier? Sheesh! It's been two weeks. It's not like she's pregnant already.
3.) Maybe he should expect it, but it wouldn't be right.
4.) What's to apologize for? See 1. This is not to say he shouldn't be sensitive to Guy A's troubles. The timing is unfortunate, but nobody's obligated to honor some emotional moratorium.
