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Originally posted by ironweed
Let me get this straight - sending a card to your ex-husband is a Bad Idea in light of the divorce but getting together to do something fun is ok? You think he won't remember that it's their anniversary?
I know less than anyone about the dynamics of the relationship under discussion here, but one thing is for certain: you can't get into a bitter argument with a greeting card.
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A card that is specifically in honor of an event that is being legally nullified is weird. They seem to get together and/or talk as friends sometimes; why not now?
It's like, if a friend's only child has died, you don't send a mother's day card. You have dinner with them or whatever to provide company in time of stress.
Possibly she could call his friends and make sure they take him out. Which I was going to say, but didn't.
