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Originally posted by ltl/fb
A card that is specifically in honor of an event that is being legally nullified is weird. They seem to get together and/or talk as friends sometimes; why not now?
It's like, if a friend's only child has died, you don't send a mother's day card. You have dinner with them or whatever to provide company in time of stress.
Possibly she could call his friends and make sure they take him out. Which I was going to say, but didn't.
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Ah. Gotcha.
I am in semi-regular contact with one of my exes (with whom I lived in a state of sin for several years), and we get together from time to time, but it would never occur to me to send her a card commemorating any part of our relationship, nor have I ever received one from her.
I have a hard enough time remembering significant dates associated with my current relationship. Plus also the penalties for forgetting are considerably more severe.
