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Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
Right. Having been on both sides (the one who thinks she can change to please the other one when in fact there's nothing to be done, and the one who is going to leave unless the other person changes), I think that 9 out of 10 times it doesn't work. People don't change if someone is asking them to change - they only do it if they want to do it for themselves - and it's rare that they can actually do it even if they want to.
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I was speaking more to her decision I think . People won't change because you tell them they have to. But he might change the stuff that bugging her simply because he'll likely change quite a bit over the next few months.
And sunny, I'm speaking about a hypothetical girl who's boy just came off a mountain. You can dump him w/o any reason, so having a reason is okay also.
