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What Would a Fashionista Do?
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Originally posted by sunnybunny
It was the pansy ass shit. You sound like the worst kind of guy...serial monogamist afraid of being on his fucking own but too fucking wimpy to actually break up with a woman once he realizes she isn't the love of his life...or too fucking un-selfaware to realize she isn't the love of his life until years and years of dating.
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Really? In my mind, I was actually arguing for the opposite. People should do what they want in relationships, but try to be honest about what they want and why they want it. If they can't be honest about the ways that they feel and the reasons they do things (to some extent; a little "that's just how I feel is fine now and then"), they should be in therapy about that shit. And if they're languishing on for years with someone who's not making them happy, they should move on. I certainly have.
Maybe that's "sensitive," maybe it's being a pansy-ass, whatever. I just think it's a lot more productive, a lot healthier and a lot more likely to lead to happiness that keeping that shit inside and letting it fester. That's what can lead to crazy breakups, passport burning, cheating, divorces, domestic violence, etc.
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