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Originally posted by Replaced_Texan
I probably agree with most of this, BUT I saw something in mmmmmmmmm's post that suggested that after explaining why you're breaking up with the guy (which I agree with) you should be giving some room for corrective action. In my experience, that doesn't work. If someone wants to break up, their mind is usually pretty made up on the matter, and I think that leaving false hope that things could get better is worse than breaking someone's heart.
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Like if the problem is, for example, I'm not attracted to you and the thought of ever having sex with you again really sketches me out. Hard to fix that with counseling, I say. Also hard to say during the heart-to-heart airing of grievances. Usually is couched in terms of "feelings have changed" and "it's not you, it's me".
