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Originally posted by cuckold
Longtime poster, first time socker (well, there was one other time, but it really didn't mean anything).
So here's my problem: I have just found out that my wife is having an affair. I love my wife (but reserve the right to change my mind about this), so this is, well, distressing. Or maybe I should say OH MY GOD I CAN BELIEVE SHE'S SLEEPING WITH THAT SON OF A BITCH.
Anyway, I'm a bit freaked out, so any words of encouragement would be nice. I'm not expecting any, especially as a sock, but I had to get this off my chest somewhere.
As an added bonus, if you want to pick on me, I discovered the whole thing by snooping through her e-mail (although she did leave it open on the computer - what's a guy to do when he glances at it and notices an oddly large number of e-mails from "Bill"?).
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1. I realize you may not be thinking straight, but don't say "added bonus". It's redundant.
2. I'm sorry this has hit you as a shock, but I think it's naive to expect that people won't cheat. Trust gets betrayed casually every day. It happens. Don't get all emotional about it. If you want to stay with your wife, just pretend nothing's happening and realize if you want to stay married to her, you have to accept her, warts* and all. Or else move on. Do you have children?
*actually, if she has warts, and you still married her, I would have to question your judgment.