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Originally posted by notcasesensitive
Why would you do this? Isn't it going to come out one way or the other? Would the decision not to confront be in order to save face (not let her see you be upset about it) or because you would know going into any potential conflict what your outcome will be and you tend to avoid confrontations?
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If I don't confront then (a) I don't have to admit to snooping and (b) I can keep the divorce process smoother for the sake of the kids. If I bring up the affair, it will
not end well. There's a part of me that just doesn't ever want to say to my kids "well, honey, the reason Mommy and I don't live together anymore is because she's a huge whore.*"
*NTTAWWT
