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Originally posted by cuckold
If I don't confront then (a) I don't have to admit to snooping and (b) I can keep the divorce process smoother for the sake of the kids. If I bring up the affair, it will not end well. There's a part of me that just doesn't ever want to say to my kids "well, honey, the reason Mommy and I don't live together anymore is because she's a huge whore.*"
*NTTAWWT
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I thought you said she left the e-mail open? I doubt that even constitutes snooping in bnb's book.
I agree with TM that she wanted you to find out if she just left an e-mail open like that. Though my guess would be she's been feeling guilty and hasn't known how to tell you herself. I'm actually surprised that she had an affair with an old friend if there was no prior romantic thing between them. Seems like that road would have been explored before [iykwim]. Makes it sound to me like he was initiating and she let your problems at home be an excuse for seeing if the grass was in fact greener. Probably it wasn't.
And that, my friends, is my go at playing armchair psychologist for the day.
