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Originally posted by bold_n_brazen
1. Is it possible, just maybe, that cuckold is somehow also responsible for what's happened in his marriage? Maybe there are issues that he hasn't addressed, maybe he treats his wife in a way she doesn't want to be treated, maybe he's left the marriage a bit too? I mean, seriouslly, Sebby, you're a smart guy but you miss the point here. His wife didn't cheat (if she in fact did, and I have yet to hear anything that confirms that she did) in a vaccuum. It's not all her fault. cuckold likely has some responsibility in this. So going all Marcellus Wallace on her ass probably isn't a reasonable thing to do.
2. There are children involved. To fuck her up fucks them up. And fucks up his future relationship with his kids.
3. I agree about one thing. He deserves a better gig than spending his life with someone who isn't as much into him as he is into her. Everyone does.
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You're absolutely right. Cuckold did something wrong. And it was wrong of me and everyone else to gloss over that. Clearly, his wife is looking for something he didn't provide. And she's only human.
BUT, there are ways to address issues and ways not to address issues. She decided to try to keep the marriage and fuck around. Thats not wise unless you know your spouse is one of those people who'll turn a blind eye to cheating (I have a couple of female friends who have to know their spouses are messing around, but stick with the guys because they like the cash/married bit and/or are too afraid to leave). Some folks can cheat their whole lives and still keep a marriage, but its a really inappropriate way to handle things. You basically live a loveless fake marriage.
Cuckold's wife isn't worthy of a beat down for cheating. She's worthy of a beat down for lying and not just divorcing Cuckold when the relationship soured. At a minimum, she should have told him she wasn't happy and that she needed the split. If she did (its not in the hypo yet), then Cuckold has nothing to gripe about now.
The problem with a lot of women in these situations is they don't come right the fuck out and say what they feel. This may sound sexist, but women seem to be more passive aggressive. They let the bad shit build and then handle it poorly, whereas a guy is used to just confronting an issue and having a blow-up over it. I have no doubt that Cuckold's wife thinks her pronouncement that there were "problems" was basically a soft declaration that they'd be separating. She was trying to split, but not split at the same time. She wanted to try out someone else, yet not lose her marriage. Problem is, marriages don't work that way. She needed to either say "We're done" or "We have to work this out." She chickened out and instead pulled some backdoor shit. That's lousy. Shit or get off the pot. Either dump him or stay with him, but trying to do both is just criminally stupid. And at our age, people should know that trick never works (unless your spouse is a Casper Milquetoast worthy of absolutely no respect).
As to pummeling her in the courts, I don't know any other way to litigate anything. You either get ahead and force the other side to chase you or you'll forever play catch up.
