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Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
How timely. Today on MSN there is an article about good lines to use. Take these tips from Christophe, par example:
Cristophe
Celebrity hairdresser to Bill Clinton, Nicole Kidman, and Liv Tyler
"Don't play it cool. Being intimidating and aloof is no way to start a dialogue, or a relationship. Being casual and friendly goes a long way towards establishing trust with someone. Also, use the fact that everyone has an image or fantasy of who they are inside. Tell someone they remind you of a certain celebrity and maybe continue the dialogue by asking, "If you could be any celebrity, who would it be?" You'd be surprised by some of the answers you get! It taps into who a person really feels they are or aspires to be. It's about finding out what someone's dreams may be. Then you can start connecting with them."
That's not cheesy at all! Thank you, Christophe! For more tips, go to http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44658>1=6736
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Yeh, but none of this addressses the meat of the issue, which is "What opening line do you use?" Thats the tricky part. Once you engage conversation, of course you should be yourself. BUT the opener is the son of a bitch in the whole project. Its like hitting a one iron out of heavy rough.