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Originally posted by Replaced_Texan
Yeah. There needs to be a clear indication that the distance is temporary and at some point someone is going to have to move in order to keep everything going. What that point is is open to interpretation. My last LDR ended in part because there was no clear end in sight and the status quo wasn't working.
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Well, the distance has to be temporary if and only if you decide the relationship has legs. Being in an LDR for 3-4 months is good b/c it gives you time to decide if you really like the person or not and, if not, it provides a convenient excuse to get out.
What I'm saying is go for it. Try it out for a few months and see if your feelings are more than just fleeting. If they grow some roots, then realize that someone will have to move before too long.
