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Originally posted by Mister_Ruysbroeck
Well, the distance has to be temporary if and only if you decide the relationship has legs. Being in an LDR for 3-4 months is good b/c it gives you time to decide if you really like the person or not and, if not, it provides a convenient excuse to get out.
What I'm saying is go for it. Try it out for a few months and see if your feelings are more than just fleeting. If they grow some roots, then realize that someone will have to move before too long.
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Here's a question:
Why is everyone giving RT advice on this?
She has had ldrs in the past. She is smarter, nicer, saner and more grounded than almost all of us. She seems much more equipped to handle this situation than anyone offering her advice. And I don't believe she asked for any (if she did, I missed it and am thoroughly wrong, wrong, wrong).
I'm sure she appreciates it or will pretend to because that's who she is. But jesus. Do you people give unsolicited advice to your irl friends?
TM
