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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
You can't "screw anything up" in dating/hooking up by making what you perceive to be a strategic gaffe. You can charm a girl who’s attracted to you but thinks you’re a dick or is wary of you. You can endear yourself to a girl and slowly create a relationship. But you can’t make a girl who isn’t interested interested. If she’s not curious about you from the get go, cut bait.
I guess what I'm saying is, don't beat yourself up about the strategic fuck up. Its not you; its her. Well... actually, that’s not true. It is you. But its nothing you did on the phone, so you got that going for you...
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My god, man. When did you become such a savant? I'm serious. You are exactly right.
I'm sure it works the same way in the other direction. One phone call is never going to make or break anything. As long as you don't get all "Swingers" on someone's ass, no strategy makes a difference in the long run. You're either into each other, or you're not. You can't force someone's feelings; I just can't improve on what you said.
If we ever have an award for "Most Transformed"* you are the clear winner. I don't think anyone else would come close.
Did someone steal your login?
*for Good, that is. It would be quite a horse race for "Most Transformed for Evil".
