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Originally posted by nononono
Like I said, she doesn't trust you. This could be for a variety of reasons.
But, er, thanks for the lesson what women (ie., people like me) mean and think. Of course, I am not a 25-year-old Serbian waitress in California who has been approached by a suave, if apparently hirsute, real estate developer guy, so it's not like I'm in a perfection position to say. But I've never had a guy trigger - inside of two conversations - such a bad memory of such an awful prior experience that it compltely freaked me out; there was always something particular about the (new) guy that was an issue. In any event, I don't think anyone meant to say that it's impossible to screw it up/make it better, but her behavior on the phone is at best wary, and most women ifwary enough don't respond too well to further pushing.
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Personally I am not wary of men who adhere to such concepts as "women don't know what the hell they want and change their minds often," and "dates are like walking through a minefield because all women have baggage that could make things confusing for me." I am wary of hirsuteness, however.
