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Originally posted by Spanky
3) At this point there is not enough information to know what is going through her mind. There were all sorts of mixed signals. She wrote down her phone number (she did not say it to me so I had to write it down) and said she really wanted to go out to dinner. When I called her she seemed shocked that I called. I think she was expecting a call from someone else. She kept saying she did want to go out but I think she is nervous because she doesn't know who I am. - actually this is waste of time because there is no way to know what she is thinking and she may not even know what she is thinking.
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I am wonking and have no idea what the background is to this story, but you should call her, tell her you made plans for whatever day you were going to go out with her, tell her you'd love to see her some other time and let her know that she should definitely feel free to call anytime.
You will become someone who doesn't need her and might not even be interested. This will trigger her ego and her curiosity. She will call. And if she doesn't, you weren't going to get anywhere anyway.
TM
