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Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
You are focused on abs today.
I totally agree. When I bartended, this used to happen now and then. I don't think that anyone's status ever improved as a result. Quite the opposite.
Thurgreed's advice about unavailability is spot-on. I think it is universally true that if you have a kernel of interest in someone, and they become unavailable to a certain degree, that kernel grows into a whole ear of corn. Familiarity breeds contempt and all that. And if there's no kernel to begin with, unavailability of the other person preserves that other person's dignity.
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Spanks is far past the standard rules regarding familiarity and kernels/ears of interest.
He’s not even in the fucking same cornfield with the Serbian. She’s given him the Heisman in every conceivable gentle manner. There’s a certain point when even the most clueless man gets the hint. I think he’s either off the charts desperate or an egomaniac who cannot believe this woman is not interested in him.
The Serb was probably drunk and might have been a little more flirty than she’d otherwise be. Perhaps she just broke up with someone and just needed to feel the kick of giving out her number. Who knows? But what’s certain is, the next day, she all but told Spanks in plain English, “not interested.”
Take. The. Fucking. Hint. Already.