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Originally posted by Spanky
The basic plot of most of the teen movies I have seen (hell and a lot of adult ones) is that guy meets girl, girl not into guy, guy convinces her to change her mind, and he always gets the girl in the end. Did it ever occur to any of you that this might happen every once in a while in real life.
Every man, with half a brain, has heard the story: We were friends for many years, I was never interested in him in "that" way, but then one day he (insert random thing) and I saw him completely differently and now we are in love. Or when he first started pursing me I was not that impressed but then one day (blah blah blah) and now I am totaly enamoured of him.
I call it the battle of attrition. But smart men learn pretty early in life that one place persistence can really pay off is with women. I just find it perplexing that so many women can be so incredulous when someone says that.
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Have all Woman with half a brain heard that story too?
Anything is possible of course. I find it interesting that you are now arguing that life imitates movie plots, but go with it if it works for you.
I have never heard any Woman say that she initially disliked or was ambivalent towards her now heartthrob, but I might not get around the way you do. For me and all of my friends, it is pretty much yes or no within 15 minutes of meeting someone. As mentioned before, by bad behavior or personality, a yes may become a no, but I've never seen the reverse occur.
You want to be with Woman who might "play hard to get"? You a Rules guy?