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Originally posted by notcasesensitive
Have all Woman with half a brain heard that story too?
Anything is possible of course. I find it interesting that you are now arguing that life imitates movie plots, but go with it if it works for you.
I have never heard any Woman say that she initially disliked or was ambivalent towards her now heartthrob, but I might not get around the way you do. For me and all of my friends, it is pretty much yes or no within 15 minutes of meeting someone. As mentioned before, by bad behavior or personality, a yes may become a no, but I've never seen the reverse occur.
You want to be with Woman who might "play hard to get"? You a Rules guy?
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As is often the case with Spanky's posts, there is a kernel of truth in there, under the layers. It is true that "Every man, with half a brain, has heard the story: We were friends for many years, I was never interested in him in "that" way, but then one day he (insert random thing) and I saw him completely differently and now we are in love."
But what Spanky is (perhaps unconsciously) omitting is that the "insert random thing" isn't "parted his hair on the left" or "gave me a book of poetry" or "showed up unannounced at my work" but rather tends to be "broke up with his girlfriend" or "got divorced" or "finally got off his lazy ass and scored a decent job." In other words, the attraction was always there, but there was some impediment (romantic or at least social) that is suddenly lifted.
