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Originally posted by dtb
BNB, you've got all this on the flow chart, right?
ETAsk, What is soft swinging?
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A buddy of mine was going around to couples at a recent wedding earnestly asking them if they wanted to soft swing with he and his fiancee. I thought it was hysterical (he got some pretty strange looks from people who couldn't tell if he was kidding). The technical definition I got from google is below:
Soft swinging - Couples get together and engage in sexual activity together, but they only have sex with their own partners -- no partner swapping; no mingling of bodies between couples. But a lot of watching does go on -- and possibly some touching -- a touchy matter best negotiated in advance. The hard line for soft swinging is no intercourse between non-mates. A wider definition says that any time a couple brings in a third party, they are swinging (threesomes). But in this case the third party would only watch or be watched.
