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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Jesus Christ. I was speaking generally and using you as an example.
TM
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Sheesh, now who is mr. sensitive?
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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Jesus Christ. I was speaking generally and using you as an example. Next time I'll say, "Besides penske, of course, I find it hard to believe that many relationships could survive one party turning to the other and saying, essentially, "Even though I've never had a threesome, why don't you get lost so I can fuck this woman who you and I both know is hotter than you. You'd just ruin the whole experience." I should have realized that your relationship is so perfect that you've discussed all the feelings that go along with this with your wife in the past and since you have, you were able to say those exact words to her in the exact same scenario.
TM
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1. I disagree with your "many" comment. the variables in context here are too great. I find it possible to believe that many 5 month relationships could destruct over that statement, otoh, I find it equally hard to believe that many 5 year relationships could. Of course, the reality is that this is a very specific fact scenario, that probably does not happen in many relationships of any length.
2. I don't claim to have a perfect relationship, I am as certain as I can be that I have one predicated on completely open communications.
3. We have had this discussion, in a discussion of hypos, and I have said, "i might get sick of having you involved and may want to just be with the other F" and she responded, "maybe we will get sick of you and boot your ass out". You can believe that or not, the discussion has been had.
4. I do think, that even for long term relationships that are very solid there are one or two sentence statements that can precipate a splitting (although probably not without further discussion), I think those statements are along the lines of "This is over. I'm done. Fuck you. And don't think the divorce won't be scorched earth, bitch" That one could be a mistake.
