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Originally posted by Replaced_Texan
1.) Time for the control small children in public places discussion again. This time via the New York Times.
2.) Any tips for someone who is dating someone with small children? Suggestions from step-parents or their spouses, or just anyone who has dated MILFs and/or FILFs would be welcome. I don't have kids of my own (unless the dogs count) and it's been awhile since I was regularly babysitting.
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Before I opted out of dating folks with children ... anyway, my tips are as follows....
1. just try to be an adult friend but without any pressure...kids are fickle, some days you are the best...some days the worst thing on earth...don't take it personally either day
2. Kids are very literal so say what you mean and mean what you say...don't say you like pro wrestling and then not want to spend a WHOLE saturday watching it...or going in person....etc...
3. don't forget their kid...so if they react to you strangely...well ask if its a strange reaction for a kid, or strange for an adult....
thats they beauty of kids...when they act like a kid, its because they are supposed to...unlike the client who is 45 but acts 7.....
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