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Originally posted by ms. naughty diplomat
almost anyone other than a fundamentalist chirstian sees a real difference between merely lusting after someone and having sex with them.
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The simple test to use is to ask yourself whether your partner would go bullshit if you mentioned it to them, or vice versa. Would he mind if you told him you'd been doing a graphic PM play-by-play with some shmo? Would you mind hearing the same thing from your SO? If no, no problem. If yes, cut it out.
And I always thought it was hilarious that Jimmy Carter (whom I adore) did his penitential "lusting in my heart" thing interview with Playboy magazine--which husbands everywhere, of course, read only for the articles.
