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[bobbob]

Originally posted by str8outavannuys
Bobbob -- it never happened. It never happened as far as anyone (except us) needs to know. Stay friends with her, since she now could deep-six you personally and professionally, but presumably she's not the type to do that (absent provocation) -- i.e., she's down -- otherwise you wouldn't have gotten yourself into this situation. If she is a clinger or a nutcase, then you have very bad judgment and you're probably screwed.

So stay friends with her. Next time you see her, tell her what a great time you had the other night, be flirty, etc. etc.

BUT, if you think she's going to take offense and wants you to pursue her, and if you don't, she might drop the dime, well now it's a situation. That would call for more advanced matters -- things like asking threesomes with her roommate, office sex, etc. -- basically you'd need to drive her away but in such a way that she feels a little bad for spurning your advances. Kind of a Seinfeld situation.

Thanks. The booze and winning bet on the Uconn game are making me think I cna have my cake and eat it too, no pnu intended. Hopefully I more sober Monday and rememeber your adbivce here.