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[pony_trekker]

Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
I was just talking to my ex, who just had a baby. I offered congratulations and all, blah blah blah. Now this is all hypothetical, because deep down I don't think I ever want kids, but if god ever smiles upon my rocky place and a seed finds purchase, or the stork delivers a bundle of joy from cambodia or china or tanzania, I would want to name said bundle of joy a particular name. Now my ex-husband has gone and used that name for his baby. I suppose he was first-in-time, so he gets to use whatever name he wants, but now I'm annoyed because if I ever use that name it will look as if I am copying him.

Oh well. He seems very happy so I don't want to be petty right now. That's why I'm venting to you and not to him.

This falls under the "worry-when-it-happens" heading.