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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
I think both people change. I know I have, and so has she. The relationship either has the elasticity to hold together during that evolution or it doesn't. I could kill her half the time, but there's no use trying to change her in any way other than how she naturally evolves as a person (which process is driven partly by me, so I guess you could say spouses do change each other).
I sometimes want the reckless crazy party girl I knew back. I used to think I'd go gently toward my 40s, but that's not in the cards. I like it. I mean, the kid's great, the house is nice, the money's fine... but there's something there driving my head in a very different direction at all times... a little self destructive bug I caught somewhere along the line. I think I need to do what Less is doing at some point. She'll let me, just so long as she has a palace and her friends around. maybe thats why I love her - we observe the 'personal space' thing. I couldn't take a needy person, and v/v.
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"“Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.” Albert Einstein
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