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Originally Posted by sunnybunny
That's my thought exactly--at this point there is nothing you can do to make them want you, just make them NOT want you...my only concern is that the dog plans were something I suggested and he agreed to, so I'm not sure whether I'm supposed to follow up and suggest details or leave him be to see if he'll take the iniative himself. Manners would say it's my job to follow up, but my instinct is to leave it be and if he wants to do it, he'll follow up.
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I'm late on this thread, but still willing to chime in. Go with your instinct, not your manners. I'm not a big follower of The Rules, but if someone says they aren't sure they want to date you, the impetus really is on him to contact you if he ever wants to do anything again. Rejectee gets a pass on any manners requirements to follow up on tentative plans.
