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					Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield  1 and 2 include the necessary assumption sex is an uncomplicated act.  Shirley you jest there.  I'll grant that for some dull people sex is mechanical, but 85 percent of men?  That's a bit high.  I'd say for most men sex is complicated as hell, but just seems simple because the processes involved in getting it and maintaining a high level of fun in it in a relationship are subtle, and mixed with a lot of subconscious, seemingly instinctual (and actually instinctual) split second decisions taking place in those processes. | 
	
 I'm not discussing the mechanics of the sex OR the dinner, either of which can be as simple as PB&J or as complicated as one of those tasting menus at French Laundry.
P.S. Diane, clear out your PM box so some people can say thanks.