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Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick
Maybe by slut scale, dtb means not that they sleep around, but that they are wild in bed. I don't know, maybe it is as follows (I made my scale 1-10):
1 -- only has missionary sex in total darkness
2 -- has missionary sex sometimes with the lights on
3 -- sometimes does it doggie-style
4 -- does it doggie-style and gets on top
5 -- gives blowjobs but only after some convincing
6 -- gives blowjobs once in a while
7 -- gives three-hour blowjobs
8 -- gives three-hour blowjobs and does anal
9 -- all that plus likes to have sex at least 10x a day
10 --all that plus has a certain magical quality I will call charisma
Please feel free to add -- this is just off the top of my head.
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There seems to be a big jump on that scale from 6 to 7. I think the upper reaches may need to be revised a bit for the general population.
Add me to the list of people who wouldn't like this to be called the "slut scale." I've not found a correlation between the willingness to experiment in bed and the willingness to jump in bed with whomever is available, in my (limited) experience. Dan Savage advocated the phrase "Good, Giving & Game" to describe an adventurous sex partner, and while I think that phrase is nearing its sell-by date, I prefer it to "slut" for these purposes.
The more important question that may be gained from raw data is whether the men on the board preferred to be in a relationship with high numbers and/or whether they had longer-term or more successful relationships with high numbers (or perhaps corresponding numbers). I remember dating a woman some years ago who seemed determined to bring back the repressed Catholic female stereotype from the dustheap of the 1950's. After a few dates, she memorably called me a "sex fiend," primarily because I wanted to have sex with her. Soon after that, I stopped calling her. I have to admit the repression thing wasn't all bad. She was never going to introduce me to any new sexual positions, but she did introduce me to some restaurants that were new to me.
As this is gwinky's list, and as it does not contain any mention of a threesome, despite the fact that several months ago gwinky mentioned wanting to engage in a FMF with her current beau/everlasting gobstopper, I have to chide her for a lack of focus in her lovelife. Some (many? all?) of us are counting on gwinky to hold up her end of the vicarious bargain.
