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Originally posted by Say_hello_for_me
Karma I guess. Plus, sometimes I'm a chicken for stuff like that. But I'd like to make it so that I don't have people dropping out of my life forever. Any suggestions?
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First, break up with her. In person, immediately upon seeing her, in less than five minutes. Do not belabor the point, do not have breakup sex, do not agree to some temporary time out wimp-ass slippery slope back into the boring relationship arrangement.
Next, recognize that she may need some distance before she drops back into your life, if she does at all. If you want to call her to check up on how she's doing, don't do it. She might need to think you are an asshole for a while in order to get over the breakup. Later, when she is over it (assuming she is not over you already) she will have a more balanced view of you and may very well end up being your friend. But if she is smitten with you, be prepared to be the village asshole for approximately half the length of the relationship.
If you sleep with her sister/brother/best friend (dog?) you will be an asshole for life. If you break up with her, you will only be an asshole until she gets over it.
Unless, you really are an asshole, then forget all of what I just said.
AM(learned the hard way that not breaking up with someone made me an asshole for life)M
