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				One More Thought
			 
 It looks like the board may have moved on from discussing ABBA/McDouche for the moment, but I just have to say this:
 He may say that he loves you, and he may even think that he loves you, but it is not love that is leading him to stalk and harrass you, it is a desire for control.  We've had a bad rash of domestic violence murders and attempts in our area recently (like, 8 in a month), and an article today appeared in the paper today about how restraining order can be helpful in heading things off.  I think a restraining order would *not* be a bad idea.
 
 tm
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