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Originally posted by evenodds
Bringing a conversation from IM to the FB:
Though I was taken aback by his attractiveness, the fact that I had an active social life and dated similarly hot men in the past makes me less tempted. It's like been there, done that.
I look at friends who settle down too early and then have emotional or physical affairs. I often wonder if the issue is that they didn't sample enough before settling down.
So, how important is sampling?
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Crucial. I didn't sample enough pre-marriage (married at 24! to first post-college bf! what was I thinking?). I am divorced. This is not unusual. I did sample a fair amount post-divorce. And now I know what is (and is not) out there...
