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Originally Posted by Adder
So, just got an email from woman A apparently "breaking up" with me for failing to come back from the date with woman B and easily choosing her. I guess that simplifies things.
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I'm a little confused. Did you have sex with Woman A or just make out with her? If you just made out with her, then she shouldn't even be bringing up the topic of you dating (or kissing) other woman and the fact that she did is a red flag. If you guys had sex after a few dates, even though it's only been a week, I think the adult thing to do after (or before) the sex would have been to have a conversation about exclusivity. It's not like you met her in a bar and went home and had sex. People who are online dating are, unless they specify otherwise, usually looking for dates that will lead to exclusive relationships. Anyway, I did online dating on and off for 4 years, and eventually met my husband on Match, so this is based on my experience and YMMV of course.
Either way, I don't blame her for not wanting to be with you if you could hook up with her one day, have a date with Woman B a few days later, and still want to see Woman B again. It may be stupid, but I wouldn't want to be with somebody who had a difficult time choosing between me and someone else.
