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Originally Posted by barely_legal
It's really not surprising that she would have a different view of your relationship after the sex than she had before the sex. While it may not be justified, it's typical and you should have realized that. And now I really don't blame her for not wanting to go out with you again. You just had sex with her, and instead of being excited about where your "relationship" with her might go from there, you are focusing your energy on meeting other women and probably trying to have sex with them. While this doesn't automatically make you an asshole, or even unusual, it would make you somebody I wouldn't want to see again if I were her.
I think you should just apologize to her for the misunderstanding and then don't contact her again. And next time move more slowly unless you're sure the online date you are about to have sex with is ok with you having sex with her while dating and having sex with other people. There are plenty of girls online who wouldn't give a shit about that (and I was one of those girls for part of the time I was online dating) but you can't tell if you're dating one of those girls unless you ask.
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whooooa, the guy is screwed up enough as it is- he didn't do anything wrong. you're going to make him ever more cautious than he is.
He went out with A once, and told her that he had a date scheduled with B (Adder answer my question- is B the woman from DC). then, before the date with B, A scheduled another date and they had sex.
Adder did what wrong?
he wasn't so starry eyed as to lie to himself or A that he didn't like B? I get that a may have been hoping that the sex would cause Adder to cancel the date with B, or to not really give B a chance, but that didn't happen. That was A's gamble wasn't it? If she felt that strongly she should have told adder she didn't want him to go on the date. But all Adder did is what he told her was going to do-
