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					Originally Posted by ABBAKiss  Actual Question Alert!  I am still very upset every day about not having an intact family* for my child, and when she is with her sperm donor I am upset constantly.  Does anyone have any advice or ideas for what I can do about this?  Are there support groups?  Anything I can do?  Help!  It's getting worse, not better with time.
 *My husband is awesome, but I am upset because ABBAKid is in a broken home and I feel like I only get to be half a mother, and it upsets me constantly.
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 I am going to say this as gently as I can.  
You need therapy. 
You're her mother. Period.  When you're with her.  When you're not.  And her father is her father.  Period.  
All of this is bad for her.  You have to love her more than you hate him.