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Originally Posted by ABBAKiss
I do love her more than I hate him, which is why it upsets me when she is not with me. I did not have a child to be childless half the time.
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I don't know what to tell you. I see my daughter every weekend and talk to her every night. It sucks, but there is absolutely nothing to be done about it. Be the best parent you can be when you have her (which I'm sure you are). Find something to do when you don't. And do your best to normalize your relationship with her father. That's about it. I would add that I wouldn't make it so obvious how upset you are that you don't have her all the time or that you'd rather she be with you 100% of the time or that her father is a selfish asshole. She will pick up on those things. They will damage her. She will either adopt whatever feelings she picks up from you or will resent you for having the feelings you're having.
You're going to have to learn to deal and, like bnb says, that may mean you need therapy.
TM
