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Originally posted by evenodds
You know how much I hate to agree with Coltrane but I cannot think of a single thing someone asked me to do that I rejected out of hand.
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I thought she was asking about stuff that people do that is a little different that one just finds one doesn't like. I would think that the fact that it is a little offf the beaten path is kind of immaterial -- if you don't like it, you don't like it, and you want them to stop doing it. This is once again I would think mostly a strokes thing, folks.
I can see wanting to be clear to one's partner that the problem (or whatever other fakey nice word ) isn't that it's non-vanilla, the problem is just that it doesn't do it for you. Because you don't want to end up in an all missionary, all the time situation or a situation where no suggestions as to new things to try are made.
