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Originally Posted by Sidd Finch
Was she the one who turned out to be substantially less hot than she claimed to believe she was?
IIRC, I saw a photo. It was like me telling people I have a thick head of hair.
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Yes. I arranged to meet her because she wanted someone to confirm her beauty. I told her in advance that I would relay
actual my opinion and that she might not want me to do it. She was secure in her looks or thought I wouldn't be as blunt as I typically am.
I met her for a drink. She was very bubbly and somewhat nervous. I was very polite (nice, even). We did not talk about her looks at the meeting.
The next day I posted that she was short and fairly pudgy, not ugly, but definitely overweight, which, in my opinion affected her looks, and that she did indeed have nice hair (which I threw in because she was so fixated on it and I didn't want to shit all over her). I was way nicer than I could have been, because once I met her, I realized there was no need to trounce all over her.
Then she didn't like what I said and immediately lied about our meeting. She posted that I hit on her (which is a fucking joke) and said I dressed below my station (probably guilty as charged), and informed everyone that I should have been partner at that point (coming from a secretary, pretending to be a paralegal, that didn't really bother me much). The lie about me hitting on her really pissed me off and I probably ended up being meaner than I should have been from that point on.
She later publicly retracted the lie and sent me personal messages about various aspects of her life that she thought confirmed her beauty, but which really were just awful, disgusting things that I won't repeat.
And then she took over this board by becoming overwhelming annoying and I sent messages to everyone asking them to ignore her, which eventually got her to leave.
TM