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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Your SO stops confiding in you and has nothing but intimate conversations with a man who's much better looking than you...
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That's where you lose me.
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can't wait to see him, thinks about him all the time, and that's all just a symptom of where your sole focus--the underlying communication issues between you and her--should be?
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Yup. I can't do anything about how she feels about someone else. If there's something I/we need to fix, then okay, let's work on that. Jealousy is not productive, and letting it drive you to insist that she stop whatever is bothering you is not going to make the situation better.
And in your scenario if she just prefers him to me, that fucking sucks and I hate it, but okay, bye.
