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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Uh...what the fuck are you talking about? "Jealousy is not productive?" That's brilliant. This is why I think you're full of shit. Jealousy isn't a thought process that one can avoid engaging in. It's involuntary, especially if it's based on something real that's going on.
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Feeling jealous is involuntary. Letting it drive you decisions isn't.
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It's a matter of her connecting with someone in an inappropriate way.
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The discussion is about what's "inappropriate" and short of something physical, I don't think there is much that falls in that category for me.
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I don't necessarily buy this idea that if you're attracted to someone there is something inherently wrong with your relationship.
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Of course not. If you're not attracted to other people, you're either lying or not human.
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But the question becomes: Where do you draw the line?
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That is the question, and I keep coming back to how is she treating me? Heck, I can imagine extraordinary circumstances where even touching is okay if its handled discretely, as respectfully as possible and not accompanied by abandonment of our relationship.
